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It's pretty common to hear tales on the news about how Japanese society is eroding, and how the youth of today are morally bankrupt compared to ten or twenty years ago. There was a story about a high school couple who got into a cab, forced the cab driver at knifepoint to drive to a secluded location, then killed him and took 5000 yen. Just a couple days ago an asshat with a knife decided he wanted "to kill 7 or 8 people" and went on a rampage in a train station and shopping mall. Despite this, it's been easy to convince myself that the problem is not as widespread as sensationalistic media would have us believe.
Yesterday my nephew was playing in a nearby park, only two blocks away from home. It's a wide field with a clear view from one side to the other; it sits directly behind the central police station for the city. He was playing with two friends who are our neighbors; just three boys, six- to seven-years-old, playing unattended by adults in a busy park filled with lots of locals.
At 3 p.m. my nephew went to get his bike, to leave early and get to a dentist appointment at our neighborhood doctor. His bike was next to a bunch of bushes. As he approached his bike, several people leapt out of the bush and grabbed him, put a towel in his mouth so he couldn't scream, and then proceeded to beat him. The kicked his stomach, and hit him with a baseball bat. When they were done, they told him that if he told anyone about the beating, they'd kill him.
He went home. He didn't say anything to his mom immediately, but ended up crying during his visit to the dentist. He told his mom what happened. His mom took him to the ER for x-rays and examination (nothing broken, no sexual violation, bruises should clear up in 5 days), and then to the police to report what had happened. My nephew was able to give a pretty good accounting of their appearance: 4 or 5 junior high school aged boys, with dyed blonde hair, and yellow and red piercings in their ears.
Apparently it takes 4 or 5 jr. high school boys to beat up one 7 year old. They'd better pray to god the police find them before anyone in my family does.
Yesterday my nephew was playing in a nearby park, only two blocks away from home. It's a wide field with a clear view from one side to the other; it sits directly behind the central police station for the city. He was playing with two friends who are our neighbors; just three boys, six- to seven-years-old, playing unattended by adults in a busy park filled with lots of locals.
At 3 p.m. my nephew went to get his bike, to leave early and get to a dentist appointment at our neighborhood doctor. His bike was next to a bunch of bushes. As he approached his bike, several people leapt out of the bush and grabbed him, put a towel in his mouth so he couldn't scream, and then proceeded to beat him. The kicked his stomach, and hit him with a baseball bat. When they were done, they told him that if he told anyone about the beating, they'd kill him.
He went home. He didn't say anything to his mom immediately, but ended up crying during his visit to the dentist. He told his mom what happened. His mom took him to the ER for x-rays and examination (nothing broken, no sexual violation, bruises should clear up in 5 days), and then to the police to report what had happened. My nephew was able to give a pretty good accounting of their appearance: 4 or 5 junior high school aged boys, with dyed blonde hair, and yellow and red piercings in their ears.
Apparently it takes 4 or 5 jr. high school boys to beat up one 7 year old. They'd better pray to god the police find them before anyone in my family does.
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Date: 2008-03-26 04:27 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 04:28 am (UTC)I'm trying to find the light in your situation, but it's hard.
I am so thankful that he will be ok, physically. He is lucky to be a part of such a wonderful family. You are lucky that you all have each other to lean on with such a terrible thing to happen.
But I know how safe you have all felt in your world, and this is going to take something away from all of you.
I just don't understand how anyone could do that to another human being. How could they do that? I don't understand people. My heart goes to your family. I have no words, but I am so sorry.
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Date: 2008-03-26 04:37 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-03-26 04:59 am (UTC)That sucks. That really sucks.
Makes me wish I was high school aged there so I could round my buddies up to go show them how it feels...
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Date: 2008-03-26 05:31 am (UTC)Glad that your nephew you is no worse for wear physically. Nothing that won't take too long to heal. Learning to trust other older kids again might take a while...
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Date: 2008-03-26 06:52 am (UTC)WTF!
Date: 2008-03-26 06:29 am (UTC)I hope your family catches up with those punks before the cops do.
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Date: 2008-03-26 06:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-27 03:55 am (UTC)WTF
Date: 2008-03-26 06:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 07:09 am (UTC)I thought if I came across the thieves who got me they'd be fucked, but this?
There's no questioning what would come next.
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Date: 2008-03-26 07:47 am (UTC)Yeah, I'd pretty much hunt them down and beat them within an inch of their lives.
I certainly hope your family is as large, nasty and brutish as mine. It's no more than those kids deserve.
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:04 am (UTC)I hope your family finds them before the cops do.
*hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-27 03:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 10:15 am (UTC)Actually, this kind of spontaneous violence in Japan does concern me. I hear about it on the news also.
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Date: 2008-03-27 03:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 01:48 pm (UTC)*heartbreak*
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Date: 2008-03-26 02:47 pm (UTC)I'm glad your nephew is okay, though sorry he had to endure that. Your family sounds loving and as if everyone has a place and knows they belong and are loved. The children in your family will grow up to be wonderful adults. These other children sound like they've been neglected and are products of families who haven't done their job.
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Date: 2008-03-27 03:51 am (UTC)We've also been discussing the likelihood that these kids are being beat up at home, and feel helpless and angry. However, I think if I find them, I'm not going to be thinking about that. I plan to try to get them to the police, but if things get rough in trying to walk them over there, I'll be hard-pressed to regret throwing down.
A group of human jackals attacking a 7-year-old with a baseball bat is enough of a reason to say "you don't get to play with other humans anymore."
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Date: 2008-03-26 09:24 pm (UTC)Glad that your nephew's got you guys for support. That'd be horribly scary stuff at any age.
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Date: 2008-03-27 03:47 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-27 04:51 pm (UTC)But, then, base life in the 1970s and 1980s was really, really small-townish in its way.
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:18 pm (UTC)What happens to parents of kids like this in Japan? What happens to the kids? Do people blame the media, or video games, or comics, like they do here?
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Date: 2008-03-27 02:31 am (UTC)Kids under 20 (Japanese age of adulthood), even if convicted, do not get a mark on their permanent record, as it is considered an insurmountable mark which would prevent them from integrating to society later in life. This assumes the reform methods will work on them.
Instead what has recently occurred to many "troubled youths" is that they are completely unaccountable for anything they do until they reach age 20. They can rob, beat, and even kill people, without fear of serious repercussion.
A wave of bad behavior has been washing over Japan in the past years, and now lawmakers are seriously considering whether or not the existing policy is reasonable. It's currently a big topic of debate.
Because the child's identity is protected, the parents' identity is also obscured by extension.
Starting a couple years ago, a jackass prefectural governor decided that games like GTA were a bad influence on people in general, and forced "Z" rated games (equivalent to either "M" or "AO" under the US's ESRB ratings) to be handled like adult entertainment: carried in a separate, monitored section of the store which minors may not peruse. Unlike the Walmart/Blockbuster/Target policies of not carrying "AO" rated games because they're "like and X-rating" the Japanese stores carry the "Z" rated games, and are now even promoting it. It has turned "Z" rated games into something like a record having a "Parental Advisory" sticker on it: it increases interest to some degree.
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Date: 2008-03-27 03:24 am (UTC)I have no words.
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